Friday, October 23, 2009

1+1 doesn't equals to 2

When 2 people comes together, it is a special thing. When so many different past experiences carried forward for each of their lives, the way they react to different situations, the way they perceived a stimuli, it still bogs researchers about the chemistry between 2 seemingly unique individuals able to go hand in hand.

For what I know, this thing that holds two person together shouldn't be called 'Chemistry'. If it's chemistry, chemical formulae are about to reason why such thing called relationship happens.

you see, I am mostly a technically trained person (with some tiny bits of artistic background), but my partner is a self-taught artistic person (with quite a fair bit of technical background). She's full of emotions and I am only restricted to a handful. She watches dramas and is interested in human dynamics. I watches documentaries and news more and am interested in technical stuffs.

Me and my baby are quite different you may think. But under all these, human has one distinctly special aspect that draws people together. We understand situations and try to accommodate to situations (please don't quote me :P). There is no fixed rule on the game of love; nothing can dictate why 2 person converges or diverges or just become platonic.

What definitely attracts me of my baby is her care and concern, her free spirit, her support for me, her beauty and her presence around me....So what attracted you?

This is it

This is it. This is my first post of my new blog. Previous one (La-critic) is about my thoughts outward. This one will be on my thoughts, inward. I am not someone whom can pen my inner thoughts as fluently and as detailed as my Baby (Lifang), but I will try.

There are a few things that spurred me to do this. Firstly, a lot of things had happened lately that triggered and tested my emotions. Secondly, it’s for my Baby’s support and love. She has been very understanding and also gave me courage to communicate openly with her. Arguments are bound to have, but it’s the approach during and after an argument that kept us going strong.

Thirdly, it’s for my personal benefit (well, it’s for our benefit as wellJ). I am a concept guy. Basically what it means is that I care more about how things happen and why things are made the way they are (the 5W and 1 H thingy), than hard statistics or facts. That can piss people off sometimes, but I am not going into that today. I realized I need to pen down my thoughts, so as to remember them, so as to organize them, so as to train my mind to define my thoughts more clearly.

It’s about my thoughts, more specifically, inner thoughts that I want to externalize. This is Intellectual Storage of mine.